Feng Shui for Everyone
Feng Shui for Everyone by Skye
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Our environment affects our behaviour and our emotions
more than we realise. Dark and stuffy rooms can make us feel unhappy or
nervous, whereas bright and airy rooms can clear the soul of troubles.
So how can we apply this to our homes and work places?
There are varying
degrees of Feng Shui. Many people hire a Feng Shui consultant to visit
their homes and make necessary changes using a Chinese compass. This is
often too expensive and time consuming for families today. Most of our
homes can be small and there is often not much choice when it comes to
furniture placement. Some of our more modern homes have built in
furniture, which usually gives more storage space but leaves us with
even less room for changes. In our homes we like to be comfortable and
place our furniture and decorations where we think they look the best
and are most practical. There are many other small differences we can
apply to our living areas to improve the flow of chi around our home.
Most of the principles of this Chinese tradition can be applied
using common sense. Clutter and dirt can make you feel uncomfortable and
restless. Keeping your home clean and tidy is half the battle to begin
with. Many minor alterations can be made with little effort.
Lighting is essentially important. Walking into a room
that has no light at all can cause us discomfort – especially as the
nights draw in. Lamps and careful lighting in dark rooms and corners can
make a world of difference to how we feel when we sit down in the
evening. A carefully placed plant can also lift our spirits without us
even realising. Another simple yet effective part of Feng Shui is how
your home smells. This can easily be changed depending on your The main focus of Feng Shui is on balance. The basic
principles of Feng Shui revolve around the five main elements. These are
wood, fire, earth, metal and water.. In order to apply these elements to our homes we must
find the correct balance of each one in each room. Wood represents our creativity and social lives. By
placing wood elements in various parts of our homes we will be
developing this part of our lives. Green is the colour associated with
wood. Plants, wooden items and furniture are usually symbols of this
element and are best placed in a room where study and learning is
accomplished.
The Fire element is
arguable the most powerful element of the five. It represents our
enthusiasm and energy. This element must be used with care as too much
can overpower a room and have a negative effect on our energies. Red is
the colour of fire. Patterned objects, candles and triangular ornaments
are symbols of this element which is best kept to active and busy areas
of the house..
Earth represents
honesty and security and is represented by the colour of yellow. Too
much of the earth element can cause loss of spirit and bring
suspiciousness into your home. Symbols of earth are ceramics and
crystals – landscape pictures are also connected.
Metal is a forceful element that can grab your
attention as you enter a room. Gold, silver and white are the colours
associated with this. Business and professional lives can be affected by
metal elements and they should therefore be used with caution. The water element can be enhanced with a fish tank and
this can improve our wealth and financial status. It is also connected
to our education and learning. Negative chi will be gained from a
dripping tap or leaky pipe – and this can drain our finances. Black is
the colour associated with water. Yin Yang theory is also very important in practising
Feng Shui. Everything in this entire universe has two opposing sides.
These sides – although total opposites – are deeply connected and one
cannot survive without the other.
Yin is a feminine
principle. It is represented by the colour black. It is best kept to
bedrooms and areas of the house were relaxation is the main focus.
Sleeping quarters benefit form having a Yin balance.
It is important to remember that each one needs the
other so there has to be some kind of compromise or the house will feel
out of sorts or unbalanced.
When we are applying
Feng Shui to our houses we must not forget that children’s rooms need to
be balanced too. Negative stimulation in an environment can affect the
behaviour of our little ones. This can also cause sleeping problems and
difficulties in concentrating at school. There are a few points that we
can remember in order to adjust our children’s bedrooms in a more
positive direction.
First, and perhaps most important of all is the
placement of the bed. It should be placed with the headboard against a
wall. You should be able to walk down each side of the bed if the room
is large enough to allow this. The bed should be facing the door but
should not be in line with it. This ensures maximum protection and
security. Your child will feel comfortable as they can see the entrance
and exit to the room – but they will not feel vulnerable. If the bedroom
only allows for the bed to be in line with the door then you should
place some protective furniture – should as a toy chest- at the end of
the bed to ward away any negativity entering the room. The bed should
not be under shelving or beams. Anything that stands or hangs over the
bed will give a sense of pressure and can cause headaches or disturbed
sleep patterns.
The walls of the
room should be pastel colours. Bright and cheerful colours are
distracting and can cause children to be mentally stimulated instead of
resting at night. Greens and blues are relaxing colours to use and pale
yellow is stimulating, but also restful. Posters and pictures are fine
to use but choose them carefully. Keep them non threatening and as
simple as possible. Mirrors should not be placed in a child’s bedroom as
they tend to keep the room in a state of ‘awake’. Family photographs are
wonderful to have in a child’s bedroom. They promote and communicate
love and security to children and provide comfort.
Often children are required to share bedroom. It is an
unavoidable scenario in many a household. Feng Shui can still be applied
to a shared room. Separate spaces can be created using furniture to
divide the room, or the room itself can be divided into a sleep area and
a play/study area. Most children need a place to study and a desk, or
workplace, in the bedroom is perfectly acceptable. Study areas should be
placed facing the doorway of the room. The surface should be free of
clutter and toys. Our pets also have an effect on the Feng Shui in our
houses. They add fire energy to our homes and can refresh our enthusiasm
and outlook on life. Animals reflect the areas that they live in and the
people they live with through their moods and character. A well adjusted
and happy pet will give us the same feeling. Just as when we are ill or
unhappy – the animals in our lives often feel the same way and reflect
us. Most pets need a small space of their own in a room.
They need a place to retreat to and rest. You will find that most pets
find a comfortable spot that they return to in each room. Animals can inform us of spaces in our homes that may
have negative chi - You may find that they simply avoid certain places
or will not walk through one room in particular. This is often due to
their energies being disturbed by this. We can break up this negativity
and improve the area to our best capabilities. This can be done by
clearing the space of clutter and Dogs and cats can enhance the positive and lively
energy of a home. Fish can create a relaxing environment and become a
feature in any room. Another aspect of our Feng Shui being affected is in
how we treat other people and animals. Neglecting pets or being negative
towards others will result in our self image and general lifestyle
suffering. One place that people often forget when creating a
Feng Shui home is their garden. It is equally important to have a
balanced and positive outdoor space. Positive and calming chi in our
gardens can help our lives to flourish – as well as our plants and
wildlife. It is often the case that you have more room to practise Feng
Shui in an outdoor space. There are no walls to constrict your
creativity. Water features can be a wonderful way of enhancing the flow
of energy through your space – enabling you to absorb and enjoy the
natural tranquillity and harmony that it creates. Plants and trees can be planted in various ways in
order to get the very best benefits and chi from their placement. Tall
trees should be placed behind a property for security and protection.
Pathways and entrances should be kept clear and free of clutter. Weeds,
dead leaves and broken objects should be moved from your garden. Red
flowers stimulate luck and prosperity within your outdoor space. Homes without gardens can apply the same fundamental
rules to window boxes or shared courtyards. It is how our gardens look
that makes a difference to how we feel. Sounds and smells are equally
important and can be achieved by encouraging wildlife to visit your
garden. Plants that sway in the breeze can create an extremely relaxing
atmosphere. Herbs can be multi purpose to you if planted. Not only can
you use them in recipes and tinctures, but the aromas can be very
influential to you and other family members. Many people dismiss Feng Shui as unnecessary and
complicated. It need be neither one of these things. A few simple
principles can transform your home into a harmonious and happy
atmosphere that can be enjoyed by everyone. |